Saturday, October 12, 2013

A cancer-themed birthday party for an 11-year old a huge hit

In my family, we've had some great parties. Great surprises, personally meaningful, just-great-to-be-together good times. My niece, Isabella was born on my sister Marie's birthday, so the occasion of their birthday is especially cause for celebration.

A story about a singer, Alastair Moock, who writes songs to help his daughter cope with her illness caught Issi's attention and even though she's just 11 years old, she wanted to shave her head in support of his daughter Clio, and to raise money for cancer research. You know, it's important for parents to recognize and appreciate when their kids act selflessly, if only because it's such a rare and (honestly beautiful) thing! So, as a surprise for Issi's birthday, it was arranged for Alastair himself to come to her birthday party and perform for the many friends and families who came to celebrate the mother-daughter birthday. It was just an incredible time for everyone.

We enjoyed a personal, intimate concert right in the living room and Alastair opened with the song that he's well-known for, "when I get bald". He talks about standing tall, being proud, using his hair to make a nest for birds, reminiscing about the hair he once had, and painting a face on the back of his head and doing all kinds of funny things.
 
He commended Issi for being such a special girl for wanting to shave her head and raise money for cancer research, and commented, that it's pretty unusual for an 11-year old to have a cancer-themed birthday party! What followed were delightful and fun songs, getting the whole party to flap their arms like a chicken, sing along, and playing Clio's solo part on kazoos. Interspersed were songs that would be so helpful for a kid, a hilarious tune about being brave at the doctor's, and an empathetic piece about understanding feelings of jealousy, and an insightful "kids, take care of your grownups" about the flaws and struggles grownups have, to which Alistair commented, "I've never had the adults in the audience boo at those lyrics before, that's a first". lol, you just have to know my family. 
 

Thursday, October 3, 2013

well loved children

I was so inspired at the market by a young man who was enthusiastic about my soaps but didn't have much to spend. He later came back with his bother and made two more visits to my table with both his brother and sister, smelling every product and evaluating which their mom would like best and what the scents reminded them of her. She retired and moved to the South Carolina with their dad..., she was a nurse and loved to garden (so the lavender would be good because she loved growing flowers, but then again the soap with the fall leaves will remind her of fall in new England; oh, hey, smell this one... on and on it went)... They spent so much time delighting about how pleased she would be with their gift, and they ended up putting together a small basket of 3 soaps, one chosen by each. I'd love to meet this woman who I don't know, but I do know this... she raised her children with love and in turn is very well loved and appreciated. And even if they're not her perfectly favorite products, she's really going to enjoy her soaps just knowing that her kids were thinking of her and wanted to make her happy. Wow, some customers really make a lasting impression.